Young students don’t inherently know how to setup and structure homework for greater success. Remember when you structured bath time, bed time, etc? Do the same with homework time. Set your student up for success with structure that works.
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Two quick Homework and School Success Tips: 1) Review notes on the same day you take them. You’ll remember more of what you learn; 2) Students should self-monitor their homework. This means to write down what work you do each day or night. This alone will increase productivity and grades.
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Hope the new year finds you happy, healthy and prosperous. Thanks to all of you whom have given so much support to me, my practice, my blogs and my new projects. Your support has been amazing.
My homework book is being edited and will be available later this month. your going to love it. The long promised parent coaching and support program will launch along with the book. Register early as an “insider” and get the best monthly rate. The rates will go up 3 months after the launch. Send me and email to express interest, jbhudome@comcast.net.
More video to come over the weekend. I’m home today and plan to watch Penn State in the Rose Bowl. My daughter attends Penn State and has friends coming over. Love the energy of the college age group. Go Lions.
Dr. John
The most common age of first use of drugs or alcohol reported in rehab programs and to me in my private practice is 13. This shocked me when I learned this many years ago. Age 13 doesn’t shock anyone working in a rehab facility. It surprised me very much. This just seemed too young. Most of us were in 7th or 8th grade at age 13.
Although I was surprised by the first use age of 13, I can still recall the group of boys in my 7th and 8th grade class whom drank alcohol (reportedly by them) regularly on the weekends. So this isn’t a new phenomenon at all. It was occurring in my class in the 1968 and 69. Here’s a video.
The “take away” here? Talk to your kids about these things. Also, remember that they see what you do. You can’t preach one thing and do another. Maybe you should role model responsible use or, no use at all.
Dr John
There are still a few things that too many parents are uncomfortable talking to their children about. In particular, sex, money, drugs and alcohol, to name a few. It’s either “impolite” or just too darned uncomfortable. So, these parents just avoid the topics. Well, others WILL talk to your kids about these topics, and quite willingly. So, if you want any input whatsoever, talk about them.
Your kids will still form their own opinions on these, and many other topics. but you’ll feel a whole lot better that your spoke your mind.
Dr. John
Well, I asked for questions and I got one. Thank you so much for the question. Here’s the question and my response.
Please ask your own questions. I really will answer them.
Dr. John
My attitude with my children always made a big difference. Remember to lead the way. Decide if you want to go through life as a Tigger or as an Eyore. Here’s a little video.
Be the Tigger leader in your child’s life.
Dr. John
Here’s a quick vid on the issue of battling with your child. Lots of parents tell me “I feel like it’s always a tug of war.” Watch what I think about this issue.
Dr. john
My work with parents is some of the most rewarding. And since I find that most parents need and want plenty of resources, I’m initiating this space exclusively for such needs.
I really need and want to hear from you as to what content you want. If you post comments and questions, I can respond to them and give you much more of what you’re looking for. Questions and comments will help the blog to focus on YOUR interests, not just mine. Even if you disagree, leave a comment. I want to hear it all.
Parenting has been a true joy for me. It is the most rewarding undertaking of my entire life. As I continue writing and sharing my personal and clinical experiences, beliefs and strategies, I hope you find it to be helpful and useful.
Dr. John
